I was touched a lot by an article called < To abandon that useless social contact>. Here I want to translate some passages which seems like cruel but also real.

“In many cases, such a rejection business centre, you think you have left telephone NO and wechat with each other, should be able to help each other. But forget a very important thing: only the relationship is equal, can help each other.”

 “We always go to participate in social contact, but do not know that a lot of social contact doesn’t work, seems to have left a phone call iguard payroll, but just a call in vain when you need help.”

“It’s cruel, but who would like to help a person without reservation.”

“If you are not strong enough, that social contact doesn’t work actually.”

“When you are not strong enough or not good enough, don’t spend too much of your time to socialize, take time to read and improve your professional skills.”


“But there is still true friend in the world. No matter when, no matter you are poor or cowardly, she (he) is willing to help you, just because you experienced something together, both of you never abandon each other. Both of your help, no need to exchange at equal value, only the feeling of equality, that’s good.”

 “This kind of person is not required too many, in this pompous world, just a few is good enough.”

“So, to abandon that useless social contact, improve yourself, to make the world greater. At the same time, believe that there is good friendship exist in the world Elomet, exist in each others' heart, keep it quiet…”


To a certain extent, I think it’s reasonable. When we are in trouble, we always want someone could lend a help, but in fact, why do you think they will help you, except for your family or very few true friend.